Pentas - You can know your child You can treat your child

You no longer need to go to this video (https://youtu.be/ptHrD3toEcI), where I walk you through an older version of this article and all the related links, because I have cleaned up this article, so that it can make sense for you (in terms of Pentas) even without my walk through.

When this was written in a more complicated way, I asked myself why I would start with something so complex as Pentas, making it hard for clients to know what I have to offer. All I got back was "this is the way I was guided to do it", perhaps to allow families to forgive themselves first, at a family level, or perhaps to weed out those who may not want to put in the effort to see something neat, or who are not able to jump over something complicated to get to something they can more easily understand. At the end of the day, I don't run my business like most people, I'm just sharing what is available, so people know it exists, and I am here for people those who recognize and invite my support.

In preparation for this event:

I put together this article, with some links:

Intro to Pentas by Ra Uru Hu (founder of Human Design): https://youtu.be/bf64rq6ZYX0

Mutation that is coming in 2027: A Look at the Rave (jovianarchive.com)

How Pentas apply to families: The Penta & Family Awareness (jovianarchive.com)

But now there's https://ai.jovianarchive.com/, so you can ask all your questions and get answers populated only with teachings from the founder of Human Design.

The following template will help you uncover your Family's Penta (see the video above for an example of how to do this):

Human Design Family Penta.pdf

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When you have coloured in everything that your family has, see if any of the following channels are not fully coloured in:

7-31: behaving well in public, with good manners, maintaining protocol

1-8: being able to make a creative and innovative contribution

13-33: being able to maintain tradition and memories

5-15: ability to follow a rhythm/system/schedule, be on time, remember what to bring, self-care, routines, balance, and harmony

2-14: ability to collect and use resources in an effective way

29-46: ability to take risks and feel safe in public

...this is where your family may struggle when you are together.

Husband, kids, and my Family Penta is missing a gate for the 5-15 and the 29-46 channels. Our family certainly feels chaotic! We are often late, we often need to return home for things we have forgotten, and there is so much yelling, more on this below (5-15). It takes our kids a long time to shift from running away, hiding, demanding, or expressing frustration in public, to simply not realizing that they didn't tell us they were going to wander off (29-46). I am not a fan of repetition, but my kids love the turning of the wheel (Halloween, Christmas, Valentines, Easter), my husband enjoys preparing and hosting holiday meals, and I am good at chronicling our day to day lives on social media (13-33). We know the standard protocol (7-31), even if the absence of the 5-15 and 29-46 channels and the innovative contribution of my work (1-8) makes it harder for us conform. My husband and kids are also creative (1-8), which means there is a lot of moodiness, more on this below. And so far, we are able to do well, despite being a single income family (2-14).

Yelling/moodiness (as mentioned above) in our family comes mostly from my husband and older kids, who are not aware of how they feel. Youngest and I feel their emotions in an amplified way, and we fire this back at them, as if this is how we feel. Youngest is here to feel disappointed, anger and frustration are her dad and brother’s signature, while bitterness comes from myself and her sister, if we are making decisions without honouring our unique strategy and inner authority (for those of us that have one). This is why it is so important to understand each person’s Human Design and how we impact and are impacted by one abother.

Each family will have different strengths and weaknesses. You can even pay to see your Human Design from the perspective of how you fit into a Business Penta (meaning how you can make money by taking advantage of the fact that most people don't know who they truly are). While this site says "Personal Success" is available soon, I've already purchased mine, so we can get yours now too, or we can work through yours together, if it feels right for you.

To learn more about Human Design (and to access a free basic version of your charts), go to: Human Design | You Have A Life Plan (yourlifeplan.ca)

Here is an intro presentation that I did for Mother's Matter Too at the Oakville Parent Child Center:

Introduction to Human Design for YOU and Your Family (edited May2023).pdf

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Including slides on the different emotional waves (image below), fear gates, and voices to know if someone is speaking their truth:

And here are the slides that were missing from the booklet above (which shows how defined centers impact undefined centers, and participant feedback):

HD centers and participant feedback.pdf

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There is also Soul Contract, Gene Keys, and Astrology which can offer additional insight into your child's Unique Psychology, needs, and life lessons, which I go into a bit in the videos that I share on my Parent-Child page.

There are many things that I have tried. Including trying to run groups, workshops, drop-ins, collaborations, and refer to other practitioners (my Autism videos and slides are available here: part1, part2, slides). But truly, clients come to see me, I need to stop dividing their attention, and step into my power, to be of service, anything other than one family at a time shreds my energy.

In addition to Unique Psychology, RestoreChi, Esogetic Medicine, Energy Awareness (for kids who self-harm), Elemental Magic, and Mudras are great for working with kids. Divine Healing and the Information field are great for parents who are open to seeing how they play a role in what their kids are going through and how they can shift to be more understanding and supportive.

There are many academic and practical books that support the brain regulation treatments available from Esogetic Medicine (some of which I include excerpts from at the bottom of My Services | yhalp.ca).

For example, the three bars of coloured light, applied to the forehead, in the Esogetics treatment imaged below, mirrors "building a staircase in the mind, integrating the upstairs and downstairs brain", which is the title for chapter 3 in The Whole-Brain Child:

I don't have it all figured out. We learn as we work together. We are all unique and the situation teaches us according to what we need to learn. As I share in this article (Master Yan: Clearing attachments and restoring balanced energy, so you can do your life lessons), we cannot escape our life lessons, they are why we are here. But we can make things easier, by lessening the load, and putting the focus back where it matters.

A lot of people are not built to function well the way the world works right now, I can normalize this for you, so your life can be easier and more fulfilling.

This article is continued and expanded here (from a more relationship perspective): Understanding Evolves, Co-Parents' Struggle, Sibling Rivalry, and Your Parent-Child worldview

Reach out anytime: alahnnaa18@yourlifeplan.ca